21 year old male dating a 30 year old
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I wouldn't think much of a couple aging 36 and 46, but a 21-year old (especially a guy... Regardless of even his opinion, I would not take his youth and time to grow away from him... I thought guys in their 20's were "immature" according to women ( I guess it''s different when SEX is involved) Most of those situations don't last cause when that 21year old sees a nice 18-22 year old walks by (especially if he's in college) it's curtains for the that older woman!
he needs to embrace his youth, its trials and tribulations; not to mention college and career choices... People need to experience as much of the menu life has to offer before they know what their favorite meal is... NO way I would date a 21 year old no matter how mature she "claims" to be. I put up with their relationship...could have so chosen someone more mature...
Janina You can always try to go slow and see where it leads. You can always still have kids with him or he can have a family with you and yours. So, in terms of being in different stages in life..again...he's the exception and probably more ready then most younger guys and even some older guys.. I hope things work out for you :)My dad's 41, he dated a 20 year old for about a year ( who I went to school with).... Then again, if I were to bring a 40 year old man to my father's for supper...father and uncle would be in jail, they would NOT approved.
I've known older guys who were really immature and players and younger guys who were one woman men , open, loving and giving. So how does it make it ok for him to go with a 20 year old? I was married for 21 yrs to a guy 16 yrs my junior - when he left I wondered if his favorite meal was financial security because he returned to bosom of family who are on their last but with massive nest egg that he wouldnt get if he stayed with me - they never approved!
When I remember who I was when I was 21 compared to who I am now, I see 2 different people.
Age is not just a number - with time, we grow emotionally and evolve as a person with the things we experience throughout the years. In the past, I've dated guys that young; but that's as far as it would go. She must really yearn for those old "college" days???