Dating for 6 months
If the double standard doesn't apply to you, it's possible you have too much patience. Part of being an adult is being tolerant and accepting of others' flaws.
Be someone who brings as much to the table as you expect from them.
If you want someone who lives passionately, has an interesting, fulfilling career, has tons of hobbies, fills the room with their personality and inspires other through their actions, then you need to be that kind of person, too.
The reason why more people aren't ending up in wildly enthusiastic relationships is simply due to one thing: they're not getting out of bad relationships soon enough.
They stay in something "ok" for months and even years on end, preferring the safety of mediocrity to the angst of loneliness.
Now, this theory of high standards has to apply to yourself as well--don't settle for a mediocre version of yourself if you want to attract an amazing mate.Be someone who chases their dreams, if you want that characteristic in your mate.