Dating nigerians america
He said that was my decision to do that and that he is not the same. I am older and have children, but own a home and just graduated from Nursing School. In Nigeria, it is very condescending to eat from the palm of a woman (being sponsored or sort of) and showing it off even when you love her doesn't pass you off as a real man That is just my two cents, you may wanna hear from other people before you come to a conclusion Hello, and thank you. However, he does have a BS already, but is not using it because he found another desire which is nursing.
He has met my family, mother children, everyone that means something to me. They don't know who I am, they think we are just friends. He told me that everything must be done in an orderly fashion and that it is not time yet to meet his family even though he met mine. Nigeria men are scared of walking down the aisle with a more successful women because we think they wouldn't accord us the necessary 'rights and respects' if they are not "eating from our palm" (sort of)So I think he would come much around if he graduate and finds a decent job, then he would look like the man in charge when he introduces you to his people.
Love is like a tree planted by the rivers of waters.
since that is your choice and his choice you got nothing to fear, but the other fact is that,he hasnt taken you to see his parents, hmmm that signals troubles but dont lack faith, just lock up tight and do your best neesha holy this is weird, it is dead drop it is your choice and you live your life any how you want it.
The only known problem with African men especially men from Nigeria is that they are often intimidated by a more successful female partner.
I know he loves me, he makes that clear in the way he treats my children and I. He knew when he approached me that I was 9 years older and he didn't go running...by the way, if we were to get married, both of us would be taking care of the expense.
...:) Your right, I can have any one, he can have any one, but I want him.
For crying out loud, we are no longer in the eighteenth century.Different people are searching for partners with different kind of attitude and mojo, I don't mind sticking up with a pretty lady that is 15 years older if she is as matured as I want and would deliver to me the dividends of marriage.