Dating tips for the shy guy

18-Dec-2014 02:30

While this feeling is understandable, always remember that he is more likely to fall deeply in love with you if you continue to do the rules.

it’s not about manipulating or tricking a guy into commitment.

With those undesirable scenarios out of the way, we can say that quality menreally fall into 2 categories: the Experienced Man and the Inexperienced Man. While the rules work equally well with both experienced and inexperienced men, , which is why we’ll take a closer look at them.

The experienced man has dated many women, or has grown up surrounded by women, and he is schooled in the Gentlemen’s Rules. That doesn’t necessarily mean he has a solid character and values, a compatible personality, or even that he’d make a great long-term match. An experienced man knows that women sometimes hesitate when they want to say yes, and he doesn’t take it personally.

Since you’re not approaching men, the rules will help you avoid players and pick-up artists as well as looky-loos—dudes who stare at you or flirt or “favorite” your online profile, but who never actually ask you out.

You won’t get caught up in fantasy relationships or affairs with unavailable men.

We do the rules on ourselves, stripping away negative behaviors and replacing them with healthy behaviors that naturally allow attraction to build.

So, the rules definitely do work within any relationship, with any man.

It touches on the most-wanted dating advice I shared with clients in 2015.

(Next month, I'll blog about The Rules for married women, including the #1 scenario I helped clients address this past year.) Talking about the thinking and mindset behind the actions is the best way I know to help you internalize healthy boundaries and put the rules into practice 24-7.#1 Question: “Do The Rules Work On All Men?