Dating your crush
But please don’t try to act like everything is okay when it’s clearly not. As you try to move on, distance yourself from these two a bit.
While the situation is less than ideal, she showed that she does value your friendship by telling you the truth before she tried anything with this guy.
That was nice of her, but that doesn’t mean it hurts any less.
About a month ago, I realized that whenever I talk to him, I mess everything up, but when I only see him as a friend, things are better.
It seems like you’re trying to be really mature about this whole thing, and it also seems like you told your friend to do what she wants with this guy. Your decision to let this guy go couldn’t have been easy, but you chose to do it for a reason.Here’s the thing: if you decided to forget about this guy and move on, and you told your friend that she could try something with him, then you kind of have to commit to that decision. I don’t want to lose her as a friend, but I’m still jealous and upset. Then a week later, I saw on Facebook that they were going on a date. I don’t know how to handle this situation because I keep obsessing over it.
It was so nice of her to tell me, and I appreciated that of course. I told my closest friends that I decided to stop liking him (can you even do that? The other day, one of my friends texted me and told me she really likes him, and that she loves being close friends with me but she realized she likes him and has no control over it and wanted to let me know.