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10-Oct-2016 07:31

The loneliness and emotional deprivation they suffered in youth will frequently lead them to deny their own needs as adults.If the child was expected to fulfil the parent’s emotional needs in youth, at the expense of his own, he is also likely to carry a heavy weight of guilt into adulthood, as well as a deep sense of inadequacy.Both verbal and tacit (non-verbal) messages from parents are absorbed by the child, as water into a sponge, both consciously and unconsciously, and have an enormous impact on his self-image and identity.

An invalidating environment is one where the people around you don’t help you to deal with your emotions, whether they mean to or not.

They may say you are wrong for feeling your emotions or punish/ignore you when you get emotional.

There can be a sense of emotional numbness, or of being ’emotionally dead’.

Such people are likely to be very poor at expressing, or even identifying, their emotions as they were unable to assimilate an ’emotional language’ as they grew up.

He may be grateful on the one hand (for having his material needs met), but angry and hurt on the other (due to emotional deprivation).So what are the effects on the child that result from him not having his emotional needs met, or, as occurred in my own particular case, not having one’s emotional needs met AND being expected to meet the emotional needs of the parent (ie, the child is compelled to act as his parent’s First, let’s look at some of the child’s most important emotional needs : THE CHILD’S EMOTIONAL NEEDS : – needs to receive love/affection and attention – needs to have personal feelings and emotions respected – needs to be free of burdensome adult responsibilities / spontaneously enjoy self / play in care-free manner – needs to be encouraged and helped to develop a sense of self-worth – needs behaviour to be guided by compassionate discipline which does not cause physical or emotional damage – needs to be protected, as far as is reasonably possible and desirable (some knocks in childhood are clearly unavoidable and can provide valuable learning experiences) This is not a definitive list, but, I think, covers the main areas.



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