Guy dating a lesbian


24-May-2015 23:11

I recognize that there are some gorgeous boys out there, but I've never felt anything for them--and I've totally had feelings for girls.

I came out when I was sixteen and dealt with drama from my parents and "friends." My best friend stuck by me and that really helped.

My LGBT friends were really unhappy that I liked a guy, and one even called me a traitor. I felt like I was coming out again, but backwards, you know? But I truly liked Tim, so I asked him out to coffee, and he said yes! It's like I found a new favorite dessert, and I can't imagine ordering the old one anymore, even though I still like it. How do I tell Tim that I never liked a guy until I met him? My sweet girl, thank you so much for your question!

When I came to college, I kept my social circle within the LGBT community. The problem is, I haven't told him about my past.

How to you tell someone you like her without losing her friendship?

For lesbians and bisexual women, you like her and want to tell her, but you're afraid if you do, you'll lose her friendship. You're not the average lesbian couple, so why do something average on Valentine's Day.

Check out these clean and sober lesbian date ideas.

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He said hello and shook my hand, and I felt like I was hit by a wave. I think I still like girls, but since I've been with Tim, I've started noticing boys more: Their bodies, the way they move, the way they smell.

I felt an instant connection, like a puzzle piece that fit right into all the curves and angles. I crushed on him for two months while I wrapped my heart around that fact that I actually was attracted him. Earlier, I had struggled to come to grips with being a lesbian--and now here I was liking a guy. And this girl I used to fantasize about does nothing for me right now.



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