Online dating after college
I understand you don't want to be something you're not, but there are a good number of women who take recreational classes and there are not enough men in them (dancing, cooking, baking, wine and/or food tastings, etc.).
Also, for someone who doesn't want the stigma of a "pickup artist douchebag", how do you approach an attractive female when you are out? Sorry to disabuse you but women in their 20s certainly do not have it any easier.You could go to Barnes & Nobles and browse through the "dude-centric" sections while checking out women.