Should a non smoker dating a smoker
I am not talking about internet dating where it is easier to identify through filters.
Is it rude to ask someone (say in a speed dating event or a cocktail happy hour event) if they are smokers?
It makes me physically ill, gives me chronic headaches, and is a health risk in general.
There can be attraction on many levels but as someone who as a kid had to put up with constant chain smoking neighbors whose smoke got through the thin walls and vents I never got used to it.
I don’t think I was being judgmental (not consciously anyway) but hearing from co-workers who are smokers they often view the world as an us vs them mentality in terms of their habit.